Sunday, November 21, 2010

不开心!

很不开心,真的很不开心
为妈妈所受到的委屈感到很伤心
妈妈是保姆,照顾baby
一直以来妈妈都以很专业的态度去照顾
好笑的是,baby的一些家人说帮人家顾孩子就不可以出门玩
妈妈帮他们顾了6个多月,才出门两次,我外婆跌倒了,不能走路,我妈妈也没得回去看她
前几天我妈妈才去了新加坡一天而已,baby当然是抱回去给他的父母自己照顾,他们自己顾到让baby吓到了,晚上哭个不停,又抱回我家叫我哄baby,她的外婆竟然下令说以后不要给我妈妈出门了,连娘家也不能回,还说要回可以,但是必须当天来回,她以为我妈妈的娘家像她的娘家,走路就能到的,好心啦,我家去外婆家要三四个小时叻,家里没有车,我们还是得自己搭巴士去的,途中还需要换两三趟巴士的!当天来回,怎么可能?我们一年才回一次,还要当天来回,这样我妈妈不是很不孝?
保姆也是要有假期的!
baby的父母在新加坡工作,一个月回来一次,回来了抱回去顾是理所当然的,况且我妈妈是在他的父母回来后才出门的!
离谱的是,baby的外婆还到处去宣扬,我妈妈的名誉就这样扫地了!

Friday, October 29, 2010

are you 18 years old???

that day got 1 uncle asked me :"r u 18 yrs old?"
I got shocked n reply him:"no, i'm 23 yrs old d"
he was so surprise when i said out 23 then he keep saying"really?I tought u only 18 yrs old".
I smile at him with politely,he asked me again:"u got bf ? need me to introduce to u?"
I said:"huh?no need!"then lie to him"I got bf d"with politely smile again.
"He is a rich n gd guy" he said
I hv nothing to say, jz keep smile at him.
but he still keep saying :" he really a rich n good guy, I won't introduce a bad guy to u, all guys I introduce is rich and good one."
He left after pay the roadtax and insurance money.
I do not know what respon should I give, so just keep smile with fake politely...haha

Actually this is not the first time that people asked me this question.
When I was working as a part time promoter at PJ during school holiday, got many untie costumer asked me this question, that time I was 20 years old.
"Ah girl, so young already come out to work ar? " they said
"haha,untie, I'm 20 years old already loh." I reply
then they surprise on my reply and said: "har, your look unlike a 20 years old girl, I though you only 17 or 18 years old, so I feels curios why you so young already come out to work. "
I was felt happy that time and said thank you to those untie,haha

now, I'm 24 years old already , still got many people say I look like 18 years old girl
should I feel happy or not? I do not know .

but actually I happy to heard this lah...and go back home look at the mirror to see how young am I? haha

Thursday, October 28, 2010

感谢上天的一切~

其实,我很感谢上天给我的一切

感谢上天让我出生在贫穷的家庭,让我能够体会生活中种种的困难,然后勇于面对

感谢上天让我出生在一个小小但纯朴的渔村,让我能远离城市的喧哗和污浊的空气;让我在城市生活累了可以回到温暖的家乡充电

感谢上天让我出生在渔村,让我时常可以吃到免费又新鲜的海鲜,就不用花钱去买

感谢上天让我每每遇到困难时都会有贵人来相助

感谢上天让我做每件事都比别人慢,因为有前人之鉴,才让我不至于重蹈复测

数之不尽的小小事情,伤心难过的;好的坏的,不要埋怨,换个角度想,或许会看到更多

Friday, October 8, 2010

simply feel happy

2:37pm
me: wat time is uk now? morning?

2:38pm
he : yup
near 8 am :D

2:38pm
me : friday?

2:39pm
he : yup
7 hours difference :D

2:42pm
me : oo

2:42pm
he : Friday
happy...?

2:42pm
me : nope
food allergic
n the weather is sooooo hot!

2:43pm
he : oh...
you just had allergic?

2:43pm
me : last night
n my 1st time also

2:43pm
he : ooo
itchy?

2:43pm
me : yup,very

2:44pm
he : seen a doctor?

2:44pm
me : cnt sleep whold night
whole*

2:44pm
he : ooo

2:45pm
me : no,my mum use traditional medicine
now feel better a bit

2:48pm
he : I see...
ooo
tht must be awful
was it seafood or something...?

2:51pm
me : no seafood , i think is the offal fault

2:51pm
he : offal...?

2:51pm
me : haha
paiseh
猪的内脏

2:52pm
he : o

2:52pm
me : my poor eng

2:52pm
he : is offal English for 猪的内脏?

2:52pm
me : hmm
google translate
dunno is collect or not

2:53pm
he : o
sounds reasonable
:D

2:54pm
me : ^^

2:54pm
he : but anyway it's Friday
sure happy because it's holiday fo rhte next two days :D

2:54pm
me : ahaha
he : no holiday for me on saturday

2:55pm
he : but for me
Saturday and Sunday are not too nice
it's Friday tht is nicer :D

2:55pm
me : y?

2:55pm
he : because of the expectation :P

2:56pm
me : expectation of?

2:56pm
he : of the holidays to come :P
haha

2:56pm
me : haha
you finish your master d right?

2:59pm
he : yup
waiting for graduation
:D

3:00pm
me : how long u tk ?

3:00pm
he : 1 year

3:00pm
me : so fast

3:01pm
he : yeah :D
good for me :P

3:15pm
me : then what r u doing now in UK?

3:16pm
he : nothing
working part time
to get some money :P

3:17pm
me : i see

3:18pm
he : :D

3:22pm
me : u r the pilot also?? c u so happy with the airplane
hehe
:p

3:22pm
he : haha
which one...?
I love flying! :)

3:23pm
me : got license d?

3:23pm
he : long time ago :D

3:24pm
me : great

3:24pm
he : haha
no la
not real world flying
simulator only :D

3:25pm
me : never with real?

3:26pm
he : did it few times
but not really a real world pilot :D
but really wanna be one one day :)

3:26pm
me : good

3:28pm
he : then I can take you go flying :D

3:28pm
me : really?
i'm waiting
yeah

3:28pm
he : haha

3:28pm
me : haha

3:28pm
he : good
then tht is an encouragement for me to go get flying license :D

3:29pm
me : ^^

the convasation is between me n him on facebook chat room
i just feel like wanna keep it
so happy to chat with him
maye u can't feel it with those words that v are chatting about
i just simply feel happy^^
thank you zy , u make my day great ^^

Friday, October 1, 2010

感触~

老板时常对顾客说:“三百多块罢了嘛;或;几百块罢了嘛,难道你拿不出咩?”
殊不知,对于某些人来说,三百多和几百块是很多钱了,
但是,对于有钱人来说只是微不足道的小钱而已

就拿我的家境来说好了
从小到大,我们几个兄弟姐妹要买什么,都得自己存钱来买,父母是不会给钱的,因为负担不起
有时还穷到要向邻居亲戚借钱来过活

所以排行最大的我,小学毕业就半工半读了一直到中四
读下午班就早上6点起身准备去工厂工作,一个小时2块钱,11点回家准备去上学
读上午班就放学后去工厂工作,有时为了多赚一点钱,宁愿加班到11,12点
弟弟也是一样,早上去鸡饭档口帮忙,11点回来准备上学
学校假期更是天天在工作
我们靠自己的双手赚钱养活自己到底为了什么?
为了不让父母增加负担,为了付自己的巴士费和一些杂费,买一些我们自己需要的东西

上了大学,更是没有向父母拿过钱,只是有时是他们硬硬塞给我,他们担心我吃不好
直到fyp的时候才向妈妈借了500块钱

我到现在还没去考车,也是因为要靠自己赚钱来考
所以毕业后就先暂时在朋友的店里做临时的书记,存钱考车

我也不爽那些有钱人用那种有钱人跟有钱人讲话的方式来对一些穷人说话
每次听到老板说:几百块罢了嘛等等之类的话,我就很生气
几百块对他来说简直就是微不足道的数目,但是,对我们这些穷人来说几百块可以让我们吃很多天了

因为小时候的经历,所以更能让我们在社会上有着比其他人更能面对任何挑战的勇气,能力,毅力和忍耐力



Thursday, September 30, 2010

“老了”的20个证据


1.不怎么爱发短信了,有什么事还是通个话比较好,并且喜欢长话短说。

2.不喜欢花太多时间沉浸在感情的思考中,觉得那种煽情的小情结已经不属于你了。

3.有时候挺喜欢独处的,但是你不再顾影自怜,你喜欢上上网,听听歌,并且自得其乐,偶尔玩玩游戏。

4.以前只爱看娱乐节目,并且准时等待,现在你爱看法治频道,科学探索你也经常关注。

5.会抽出空来去电影院看电影,你小时候觉得那是个很浪漫的谈情场所,你现在冲着你熟悉的导演你喜欢的演员去。

6.加了很多QQ群,从小学到工作的,有兴趣一致的或者星座一样的,但是你不怎么爱在群里发言。

7.有时候你会写博客,也有一些照片,你不经常到处走访别人的博客,因为你博客里的东西是写给自己看的。

8.偶尔哼着的歌,还是好几年前你熟悉的旋律,歌词也许都记得不太清楚了,但是依然接着哼。
头至少会有一本书,也许是你并未读完的书,但是一定是一本好书,你偶尔会翻来看,直到你读完
9.床。

10.开始发现不吃早餐的严重性,不管怎么样你也会填个肚子。

11.永远给不出你年龄的确切答案,22还是23,22岁半吧。

12.有个账本,你不会像以前一样不知道钱花哪里去了。

13.开始花一个周末的时间在超市购物,并且买好你一周乃至半个月的生活用品。冰箱空了你就会记得塞满。

14.小时候喜欢把东西到处乱扔,你现在看见哪里不整洁了你会自然而然收拾一下,乱七八糟的你不舒服。

15.打电话给父母的时候开始叮嘱他们要注意身体健康,你觉得有时候你反倒像大人,他们像你的孩子。

16.不浪费水不浪费电。

17.衣服可能不会很多,但是一定都会体面。

18.偶尔和朋友同事们聚会,你会喝点酒,但是你不会轻易让自己醉。

19.看到很小的小朋友的时候会觉得童年真美好。

20.有一个经常逛的论坛

kljhfg

做这份工好像在白拿薪水
除了星期一,接下来的五天,每天早上11点后就没事做了
除非还有文件还没打完或进完,不然我就一直对着电脑发呆
等着1点的午休回家吃饭,回家的那一小时却过得特别快
2点回到来,最多也是忙那半小时至一小时,过后还是对着电脑发呆
面子书一直开着,但也不懂要做什么?
玩游戏也玩不了多久,去论坛爬贴,上朋友的部落格逛逛或偶尔写写部落格
几乎每天都重复着同样的步骤
没关系,我也是做多100天就走人了

有时候在想,或许我真的不适合坐办公室的工作
因为,人马座是热爱自由,不喜欢受约束的
要我8个小时坐在办公室,简直是要我的命

这是我人生的另一个阶段,另一个旅途的开始
也许,还是需要慢慢的摸索,观察